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Call Me Crazy

In i'm just saying, musical jewels for the ears!, things i love on October 18, 2010 at 7:20 pm

I’m a fan and that’s all I’ve gotta say about that!

Learning To Let Go

In dating impaired, i'm just saying on August 14, 2010 at 3:36 pm

I think that I have yet to learn the art of truly walking away from something or someone. Somehow or another I always end up right back where I started. Believe that’s due to the familiarity and comfort of an old situation but that doesn’t mean I need to descend down the rabbit hole I once climbed out of.

I need to do this more often

What about you guys? Do you ever find yourself back tracking even though you know that’s not what’s best for you or the situation? My sister used to tell me all the time about how she couldn’t have sex with new people because it was so awkward, I thought that was the dumbest thing I’d ever heard until I found myself in that position minus the sex. I have no issues in getting to know new people but becoming intimate with them, divulging personal information and swapping life stories all seems next to impossible sometimes. Most likely because I haven’t let go of something or someone else. I’m thinking that I should approach each new encounter with an opportunity of friendship, at least that way I wouldn’t feel uncomfortable in the beginning stages of getting to know someone new. Either way I still need someone to teach me the art of letting go!

SDV

Time For a Little Laughter

In i'm just saying, random, things that make me laugh, Uncategorized on December 7, 2009 at 9:00 am

Sweet Addictions TV Candy and Skittles so hilarious!

Touching Down on this Planet

In dating impaired, i'm just saying on June 10, 2009 at 2:07 am

So yet again love is over for me or atleast no where near my realm of living. As I stated last the guy I was seeing is now over and to be honest I’m not as upset about it as I thought I might be. Its funny but I’m good, like really good which amazes me because I did like him so much, guess I felt it coming. I will admit that I was hurt when the final verdict came down but truth be told the situation was what it was and I can’t even be mad at him for it. He couldn’t see me beyond his last relationship, there were too many things about me that reminded him of his ex and he couldn’t deal with me because of that. I think its unfair but i understand the situation for what it was just another learning experience. I do feel like I’ve wasted time but again I’m not even mad about it I kinda just don’t give a damn, is that so wrong?

SDV

I’ve Been M.I. A

In dating impaired, i'm just saying, losing my mind on June 4, 2009 at 12:54 am

Yeah this week and last week was my vacation from life sort of lol be back with more soon enough. Brief updates, I am on a dating hiatus until further notice. The guy I was dealing doesn’t know what the hell he wants so in short I can no longer roll with the punches at the expense of my feelings being murdered. So over that! As for other things I am over…people in general! Starting to realize how much a “woe is me” magnet I am, people always come to me with their problems but I never get the favor returned, so yeah I’m super over that shit too!

New phrase “I don’t give a shit, tell someone who does!”

SDV

my eye are closed cause i'm trying to block them out!

my eye are closed cause i'm trying to block them out!

Wtf Is This??

In i'm just saying, random, Uncategorized on May 26, 2009 at 6:30 am

they really allowed him to post this mess! wow absolutely a bad look for the group….real bad look! This is so suspect!

Another Week of Self Serving Friends Too Many!

In i'm just saying on May 21, 2009 at 2:14 am

Man I’m just don’t seem to be having a great week and to be honest I’m trying hard not to own this bad week but damn it if things don’t seem to keep falling apart at the seams. I’m just so freaking frustrated and I’m trying to let things go but lord knows for me to let go is a serious struggle. I don’t want to own my anger towards some friends but the truth is I should own it because its a reality. I’m upset with them and I do feel extremely hurt and slighted by them and its so frustrating because I feel like there’s nothing I can do about it, normally I would speak my mind and let them know how I feel but I feel like there’s no point. You can’t make someone give a shit when they don’t want to or have no interest in doing so. My frustrations come from me being upset at the fact that I care more than they do and this seems to be happening more often, so what do I do? I really don’t know how to make myself care less.

Earlier this week I tweeted that I’m so sick of self serving friends, guess the best thing for me to do is to let them go too but damn! I’m so sick of having to reevaluate friendships every so many years, I am me and when I fugg up I am apologetic for it and I’m just tired of friends who don’t do the same!

SDV

It’s Time for the Yum-o Hottie of the Week

In i'm just saying, yum-o hottie of the week on May 15, 2009 at 3:43 pm

All I’ma say is this man is just super duper fine and oh so sexy omg he could catch it!
I give you Channing Tatum

How adorable is this pic love it!

How adorable is this pic love it!

Look at his lips oooh weee

Look at his lips oooh weee

Do They Represent Dissension Amongst Americans?

In i'm just saying, sdv on the world on December 23, 2008 at 5:50 am
The Obama's

The Obama's

I like to believe that they do not represent a dissension of any kind, as to me they are a real portrait of American families throughout the US. Granted they are African-American, they represent an ethnicity which is something far different from what we’re used to seeing in the white house. I love them and I’m proud of the country we live in because of what they represent in today’s world. And if you’re slow they represent the infinite possibilities that America was or is supposed to be about. But everyday I seem to see more and more dissension and I have to ask what the hell is that about? If we’re a country that represents equal opportunity why is it that everyone so mad about a black man in the white house, oh ad to be real technical he is biracial so there is a little bit of everyone in the white house.

Dare I ask, but is there more prejudice-ness in the air?

SDV